What Would You Do When You Realized Your Boy Friend IS a Drug Addict?

Generally, at the same time that you know what your boy friend has been doing when you’re not around him, you might know what’s going to happen to you when you’re around him. As the quote that people like to say, “What can go wrong will go wrong.

It’s true that it’s not easy to pull yourself back when you’re lost in love with someone once you just realized that he is a drug addict. However, you need to know that it is risky to be with him because he’s not who you think he is. His body and mind are out of control.

Darius Rejali writes, Drug can make one sick, chatty, relaxed, addicted, giddy, forgetful, restless, anxious, sleepy, sluggish, unconscious, incapacitated, uncomfortable, or dead.[1]

            Therefore, too many feelings are enough to lose oneself. As we all know, it’s hard to have two feelings at the same time, not even think about those feelings which are given by drugs. There are too much works at a moment because those feelings are fighting in the whole body and brain.

Then how can you expect an addict to stay cool while those feelings are struggling inside him? Of course, he won’t be able to keep himself from going wild. Thus, you should try not to be with him alone if you don’t want to face disasters. It’s better to stay away rather than try to control him. It’s a bad idea if you think that you’re a god mother who can stop a hungry tiger from eating a visible dear.

If you love him, tell him that you do love him but not a drug addict. You need to choose to tell him to choose between you or drug. Typically, he doesn’t want to lose you, but he’s afraid of being without drug too. If he wouldn’t stop then you need to stop the relationship because sooner or later you’ll find out that it’s not worth loving a guy who loves drugs more than you.

Remember that you do not need a man who can’t control himself from committing violation because you might be one of his cases one way or another.

[1] Darius Rejali, Torture and Democracy (United State of America: Princeton University Press, 2007), 390.


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One Response to “What Would You Do When You Realized Your Boy Friend IS a Drug Addict?”

  1. farzanamithila Says:

    Love and care can bring a drug addict form the dark word of drugs. If your leave your boufriend he would be more frustrated and will do drugs. You can take care of him and be with him and try to bring him out of that.

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